This is something I’ve been struggling with over the past year.
As an artist, I identify deeply with my work. Which means sharing it publicly—especially through advertising, where I can’t control the context or the reactions—still feels raw and confronting.
Two weeks ago, I offered a free 40-minute online tutorial on paper cutting. It was the first video I’d created with this intention. I poured hours into it—not for perfection, but to share the joy. To offer a glimpse into my world. To invite people to try something new, and to remind them that creativity doesn’t need to be complicated.
And then came the comment.
A woman replied, insisting that paper cutting is a craft that requires years of hard practice and innate talent. Apparently, my little tutorial triggered her.
I responded with warmth and clarity. I told her that yes—mastery is one path. But my approach is different. I teach for joy. For experimentation. For the pleasure of creating without pressure. My intention is to help people reconnect to themselves through art—playfully, gently, freely.
I’ve seen what happens when people drop the pressure to “do it right.” Faces light up. The room shifts. Skepticism melts into pride. Doubt gives way to delight. That’s the transformation I care about—not perfect cuts or technical skill.
So no, I won’t let one unsolicited comment stop me from sharing my work. But I’ll also be honest—it stung. Visibility still feels vulnerable. And I’m grateful to have access to tools (shoutout to Abi Levine and the programme I’m currently in) that help me regulate, reflect, and return to my why.
If you’re curious about paper cutting, the tutorial is still available. Just drop me a message and I’ll send it your way. It’s an open invitation to play.
